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Can my non-Asian child go as Mulan for Halloween?
Being half-Chinese, I have had others ask me for my thoughts, and have shared in private, but hesitated to make a post before because I thought being born in America, I do not have as much say as someone who was born and raised in China, and maybe I don't, but here are my thoughts as an Asian American:
In my opinion, YES! You and or your child can dress up as Mulan for Halloween, BUT make sure the costume is recognizable as the character, so buying an approved Disney costume (like the ones pictured below) is your best bet, but you can handmake your own too. There are plenty of amazing Disney cosplayers who do a great job. It's just important your costume is recognizable as Mulan, otherwise it crosses into cultural appropriation.
Cultural appropriation, according to Oxford is:
"The unacknowledged or inappropriate adoption of the customs, practices, ideas, etc. of one people or society by members of another and typically more dominant people or society."
Wearing a hanfu, qipao, or cheongsam on Halloween is inappropriate. Being Chinese is not a costume. It is even worse when traditional Chinese attire is made "sexy" as Fawnia Soo-Hoo says perfectly:
"My big beef with the sexed up version of a qipao is that it perpetuates the stereotype that Chinese women are "exotic," subservient sluts. " - Fawnia Soo-Hoo (source)
The "sexy" versions are NEVER okay. It is disrespectful and distasteful, and it contributes to Yellow Fever.
Now if you want to wear a qipao or cheongsam, I feel that is totally fine, just not on Halloween and not as a costume.
Also wearing any Asian-inspired outfit and claiming you are Mulan is not okay either. For one, others will not recognize the outfit as being Mulan's, so though you may not have bad intentions, others will see you as dressing up as Asian for Halloween rather than a specific character, and that can be offensive. Secondly, it's as if you are saying all Asians are like Mulan, which is offensive.
It would be the same as if someone took Native American traditional clothing, put it on, and said they were Pocahontas. It does not work that way. Please make sure your costume truly resembles the character you wish to portray.
Here are some costumes that are easily recognizable as Mulan if you need an example of what would be appropriate to wear for Halloween:
So if not Halloween, you might be wondering:
When can I wear Chinese cultural attire? Is it okay for a non-Chinese person to wear traditional Chinese outfits?
I personally do not believe you have to be Chinese to wear a hanfu, cheongsam, qipao, etc. You can wear them on any Chinese holiday or to any formal event such as a wedding or a banquet, or more casual or inspired attire could even be worn to work or a social gathering.
For example, Rachel Green in Friends wears a beautiful black floral cheongsam to her friend, Pheobe Buffay's, elegant bachelorette party:
There was also the case of the teen who wore a qipao to prom. The issue I have in her case was the posed photo she took, where they are squatting and have their hands in a praying position. It's as if they are mocking the culture. I could have seen it as appreciation, but the moment she took that photo, they crossed over into appropriation.